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L i n d s a y
Endure fort
An ancient motto in French words on the family crest.
What can this mean here and now
in the 21st century?
Welcome to Lindsay House!
Come explore with us
Why this family clan crossed the English Channel
What is their part in the histories
of Scotland, England, the United States of America,
and of modern Europe
How the reborn "Lindsay spirit" can inspire us today
To stay in the battle of life for the duration.
This requires
Covenant Faith, Commitment,
August 6, 2009 brings back memories
from 1945 to 1947
Please select link below:
Remembering Hiroshima, Nagasaki
It's not about "religion",
it's not about science or philosophy --
It's all about
R E L A T I O N S H I P !
Some of our readers will remember this song. For those being introduced for the first time, it was sung by Bing Crosby in a film called, "Going My Way." The lyrics go like this:
"Would you like to swing on a
star, carry moonbeams home in a jar,
and be better off than you are, or would you rather be a mule?
A mule is an animal with long
funny ears,
he kicks up at anything he hears.
His back is brawny and his brain
is weak,
he's just plain stupid with a stubborn streak.
And by the way if you hate to go
to school,
you may grow up to be a mule.
Or would you like to swing on a
star,
carry moonbeams home in a jar,
and be better off than you are -
or would you rather be a pig?
A pig is an animal with dirt on
his face,
his shoes are a terrible disgrace.
He's got no manners when he eats
his food.
He's fat and lazy and
extremely rude -
but if you don't care a feather
or a fig,
you may grow up to be a pig.
Or would you like to swing on a
star,
carry moonbeams home in a jar,
and be better off than you are -
or would you rather be a fish?
A fish won't do anything but
swim in a brook,
he can't write his name or read a book.
To fool the people is his only thought,
and
tho' he's slippery he still gets caught.
But then if that sort of life is
what you wish,
you may grow up to be a fish.
And all the monkeys aren't in
the zoo,
every day you meet quite a few.
So you see, it's all up to
you.
You can be better than you are.
You could be SWINGIN' ON A STAR."
The writer has a
sneaking suspicion that the message here had an influence on her young life
that went deeper than just between the ears.
When I rediscovered the song a few years ago, it had a whole new depth
of meaning for me. After the years of
stress and sorrow (with enough joy thrown in to keep me going) I realized that
I was among those who had chosen to swing on a star as a faithful child of God,
instead of choosing the easy, instinctive way of the animal nature.
The problem was,
I didn't know how to go about it, so the slippery slope of sin kept me
down--until finally, while truly searching and wanting to change, I started to
read the Holy Bible. All alone in my
living room in the middle of the night in October of 1960, while reading the
Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7) for the third time in one week, I
surrendered.
The intellectual
doubt (Father, if you're there,) sent up the white flag (I hereby give up all
ideas and plans for my life, and say that from now on, your will be done, not
mine.) I desperately needed to forgive and
to be forgiven (I forgive all those who
have hurt me, and ask You to forgive them.)
Because I was very sick with bronchitis and pregnant (Please heal me so
that I can take care of my children.)
That was it. It was enough. Immediately a warm pulsing sensation began to
move back and forth through me in waves.
When it ended, I was a different woman.
Whereas before I was fearful, anxious and guilty, now I was blissfully at peace, and filled with love and quiet joy. In that new and wonderful state I fell asleep and woke when the three children were waking and needed my care. After they were settled, I went back to the Bible in the living room, and picking it up, whispered: What has happened to me? As the book opened, I looked as a passage seemed to raise itself above the book and in bold type I read:
If
any man be in Christ he is a new creation.
Old things have passed away, and behold, all things have become
new. And all things are of God who has
made us ministers of reconciliation.
Now I wasn't
only peaceful, I was awestruck!
Because I had
given up trying by my own power, and had surrendered (in Bible language,
'repented'), I had been lifted above the slippery slope and have since that
time been learning to swing on a star.
Jesus Christ is no longer a storybook character to me. He is my Lord, my Savior, my Friend, my
Healer, my Provider, and through his Holy Spirit He is my Teacher and
Comforter. Every human being could
desert me, but my Heavenly Friend never will.
He is my constant companion now - and sooner than we realize, the day is
coming when Jesus will take all His faithful children home to be with Him
forever.
Family home
When You Thought
I Wasn't Looking
[author unknown]
A message every adult should read because children are
*watching you and doing as you do, not as you say.*
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator,
and I immediately wanted to paint another one.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw you feed a stray cat,
and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw you make my favorite cake for me,
and I learned that the little things
can be the special things in life.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I heard you say a prayer,
and I knew that there is a God I could always talk to,
and I learned to trust in Him.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw you make a meal
and take it to a friend who was sick,
and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it,
and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw how you handled your responsibilities,
even when you didn't feel good,
and I learned that I would have to be
responsible when I grow up.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw tears come from your eyes,
and I learned that sometimes things hurt,
but it's all right to cry.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I saw that you cared,
and I wanted to be everything that I could be.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I learned most of life's lessons that I need to know
to be a good and productive person when I grow up.
When you thought I wasn't looking
I looked at you and wanted to say,
'Thanks for all the things I saw when
you thought I wasn't looking'
Each of us (parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, teacher, friend)
influences the life of a child.
How will you touch the life of someone today?
Just by sending this to someone else,
you will probably make them at least think
about their influence on others.
Live simply.
Love generously.
Care deeply.
Speak kindly.
Leave the rest to God.
I hope this encourages you as it did me.*
Monica*
A miracle is good! 
During his junior year, he headed up this rallying effort at
Christiansburg High School.
How did he do it? Here's how a grandmother remembers it:
JOSHUA
June 1, 2008
This has been a year of years for Joshua Daniel de Gastyne of Christiansburg, Virginia.
He was born less than seventeen
years ago at the hospital in Radford, just a few miles drive away through the
beautiful New River Valley countryside. The baby's paternal grandmother had
driven more than four hours one week earlier after receiving Paul's call that
Kate had gone into labor and they were leaving for the hospital.
The labor did not produce a baby
this particular day. On arriving at the hospital, the grandmother was informed
that the birth process had stopped and that Kate had gone home. (In those days
very few people had a cell phone in their pocket or purse.) The grandmother's
adrenalin level gradually subsided as she drove to the young couple's apartment
in nearby Blacksburg. Paul, the young father, still attended Virginia Tech,
while Kate had graduated the previous June and was working at the church
pre-school and daycare which she had co-founded. The couple had previously
accepted the offer of Paul's mother to be with them during the birthing process
since she had already acted as midwife for several family home births.
For one week the three kept vigil,
and Kate wanted to do physical things, like walking around the riverside park
in Radford, to encourage the completion of the labor. It was on a drive through
the hills to the town of Floyd to visit the former schoolhouse (now a fabric
store), that the expectant grandmother heard her son say: "Mom, have you ever
considered leaving the house on Frances Drive and coming down here to live?"
This 'bolt from the blue' brought
tears to her eyes and began a prayerful questioning in her heart. All her
children were adults now and pursuing their own lives. They did not need her
any longer, and the house contained only memories. Then on awaking the next
morning she inwardly heard, "You are to sell your house and move down to be
with Paul and Kate."
With a few more tears of gratitude,
she accepted Her Heavenly Father's word on the matter, and later in the morning
she told the young couple. So by the time the labor re-commenced several
days later, the grandmother's new course in life was set, and she and the young
parents were at peace.
Kate's labor was blessed with the birth of little Joshua,
and his parents added to the name of this biblical warrior of faith, the name
of Daniel, the prophet and counselor to kings. "What a heritage!" the
grandmother said to herself. "And he's so small!" She had wondered:
What will he do? What kind of a life will he have?
Now on June 1, 2008, the answers are
becoming vibrantly clear, and the family is thrilled down to their collective
toes! Today Joshua is, at age sixteen years and eight months, the valedictorian
for his graduating class at Christiansburg High School, Christiansburg,
Virginia.
Mr. Carter, assistant principal of
the school, introduced Joshua to the people in the packed auditorium. He
praised the young man, his mother, his father, his brother and two sisters as
well. Joshua is grateful for his family's support of his efforts, and lets everyone
know it. Joshua's success thus far has been a team effort that is a joy to
behold!
There is a shelf at home covered
with Joshua's trophies, and another for his brother Aaron's as well. Only a few
months ago, Joshua was invited to accompany a surgeon (friend of the family)
into the operating room to view an operation. At Emory University, the fall of
2008, Joshua begins the long road to an education in neuroscience.
Joshua's promise could be seen
early-on, and his parents knew that he was a strong-willed child. Dr. Dobson's
wisdom helped them to harness a 'thoroughbred' and to train him in the right
direction. With his brother and sisters, he's been home-schooled as much as
public-schooled. His father has trained the four children in sports. They have
grown up with their intellects and morality disciplined by the Word of God, and
tempered by Christian fellowship.
These young people honor their
parents and other elders who have authority over them. They are on the path of
success because they appreciate their heritage, their training, and those who
provide it. In accepting the discipline of parents and teachers, they are at
peace with themselves and others, and are becoming role models for their peers.
"Don't be afraid to have a Friend in high places!"
Love Letter
to
M a m o o
I wonder how you felt that day!
There you were at age sixty-something, with a bunch of former hippies just
barely off of drugs. It was your turn to go down into the tank to be baptized,
and you were actually excited! As much as I loved and respected you before, now
my feeling for you went over the top!
It's easy to imagine how your
friends reacted to the news. After all, you had been the general's lady, and
since Dad's last assignment was as much diplomatic as military, you had some
social clout. The separation and divorce shocked us all. In the end though, we knew this was for the
good. You had realized that you could not go it alone, and you received Christ.
Mamoo's Pancakes
During the years when you were
helping me and the children through our family difficulties, you would take the
youngsters to your apartment for an overnight adventure. Do you know, dear,
after all this time, when I ask them what they remember about you, they say:
"Mamoo made the best pancakes I
ever had! Buttermilk pancakes. Yummm! "
Of course they remember other
wonderful things about their grandmother, but the pancakes made a powerful
impression on their palates, and on their hearts.
In your gentle way you
encouraged us all. I had to try really hard not to take you for granted during
those years because you excelled in unselfish kindness. Of course you had your
own pain, but you never gave it words. Truth to tell, your reputation as our
"family angel" was fully earned! Thank
you again, dear, for being you!
Miracle of Multiplied Money
Do you remember the time when
Paul was a baby and I was scheduled to drive down to Williamsburg (VA) to take
Michele to band camp? Arrangements were in place for me and Fed to go on to
Virginia Beach, and to appear on television. We were saying goodbye at the door
after you arrived to oversee the household in my absence. You asked, "Have you
got any money?"
Grinning, I answered, "No, as
usual." You handed me forty dollars, saying, "Stretch it as far as you can!"
Laughing, I walked away.
Three days later I returned,
greeted you, and gave some small gifts to the children. I think I said, "Did I stretch it far
enough?"
You looked into my extended
hand, and your jaw dropped several inches. Our laughter erupted and spread to
the children, though they didn't know the reason for the merriment. When we
calmed down, you reached out and took the forty dollars from my hand, put it
into your purse, and shook your head at the wonder of it all. From that day, we both had a new view of what
love can do!
We Almost Lost You
I remember the fall of 1979.
While you were on the phone with a friend one day, you fainted. Your friend
called an ambulance, and then called me.
Only later did you tell me you hadn't been able to metabolize food for
the preceding three weeks. You assumed it was a case of the "tummy flu", and
you did not want to alarm me; you were as usual, concerned more for someone
other than yourself. The toxins from tobacco smoke, alcohol and prescription
medications used to counter asthma, had taken their toll on your body. Your heart, kidneys and lungs were all
shutting down.
In the emergency room, the
respiratory specialist used the phrase, "congestive heart failure." Your body
went into convulsions twice within twenty-four hours, and the doctor was not
giving us any hope at all. When each
family member received the news, they began to battle for your life. You agreed
to fight also, and decided to live.
Through one intervention after
another, miracles happened. The hospital superintendent, doctor and dietitians,
agreed to allow me to feed you with raw juices when the feeding tube was
removed. Your body was then able to heal itself, as the toxins were drawn out.
More Time, More Blessings
We are so thankful for the next
eleven years of your presence with us. During that time you courageously fought
and almost won your battle over breast cancer. Your therapist called the rapid
recovery from a hip replacement surgery, "a miracle."
Through all these things, the
sunshine in your heart and soul warmed us all!
You were indeed, our "family angel". I can hardly wait for your welcoming hug when it's time for me to join you!
Tomatoes, Miracles and Mass Migration